What to Expect
Never been to a lifestyle club? Many
of us have heard of “swinging”. Okay....some of you
may even need to strike from your mind the visual of the 70’s
swinger. You know the one…the post-dinner party, long-side-burned
hubby who languidly fondles his neighbor’s wife upon the shag
carpeting of his suburban, living room floor; all the while with
the sound of his wife’s giggles erupting from the bedroom
down the hall. For many swingers today, the "lifestyle"
is social ... and it may or may not include a partner "swap".
Today’s swinger is as evolved as today’s video games.
A long way from the video game “Pong”.
Swinging, in a mainstream sense, has become something
of a social-sexual phenomenon in recent years. People from all walks
of life are attracted to the “’style”, with the
highest influx being 30-40 something, married, middle to upper class,
professionals hitting the scene for the first time. In a society
that promotes sexuality, secure couples and singles have been able
to develop a sense of sexual maturity. Good communication and honesty
about “what turns you on” has led to a point where exploration
has become a popular pastime.
Most people have the wrong idea of what a swing
club is. Many think that it’s just one big orgy and you check
your clothes at the door and then dive right in, doing anything
you want with whomever you like. At Miami Velvet this is
COMPLETELY not the case! More than anything else, Miami
Velvet is a social club where you’ll meet and form friendships with some of the nicest people you’ve ever met. In some cases,
you’ll form bonds that will last a lifetime. Here’s
how it works...
First, All gentlemen who plan on attending
must read the rules and be familiar with the rules before attending.
Click here
When you walk into a swing club for the very first
time, you and or your partner are probably very nervous. You don’t
know anyone there and you might feel like everyone is watching you.
That’s a good sign! That means you’re normal. That’s
exactly how everyone feels their first time.
You
might expect a lot when you first come to a club and that’s
probably the biggest cause of anxiety for first time visitors. I
realize that for many men it’s hard to not think about fulfilling
all your fantasies about orgies and threesomes involving the man
with two women, etc. That could be a huge mistake. As a first time
visitor, wives are usually more nervous about the evening, and one
sure way to add fuel to that nervous fire is for her to see her
husband bouncing off the walls with excitement about jumping into
an orgy or looking overly anxious about being with anyone new and
that is not his mate.
The best way to approach the evening is with only
one single expectation, and that is to have a fun time together.
For your first visit to Miami Velvet, plan on having a nice dinner
and enjoying the sexually charged dance floor. This way you’ll
both be completely comfortable, she’s not worried about him
wanting to dive into the first orgy he sees and he’s not worried
about deciding who is worthy of touching his precious wife.
Then one (or a few) of the following things
will definitely happen . . .
# 1 - At the end of the night after dinner and
dancing, you will both go home with each other and after dancing
all evening in such a sexually charged environment you will both
have the best mind-blowing orgasms during your love-making that
you’ve had in years, probably recharging your sex life and
supercharging your relationship and your marriage.
#
2 - While on the crowded dance floor during one of the slow songs,
you’re dancing together and an attractive couple is dancing
beside you and her clothes are coming off and you find her body
rubbing against yours on the dance floor. You both respond by touching
and caressing them back. Then after the song, you disappear into
the crowd enjoying the excitement of the nameless pleasure of this
slight sexy anonymous encounter.
# 3 - You are both so turned on by the evening
that you go into one of our many cozy, private rooms, lock the door
behind you, dim the chandelier, and seeing each other in the mirrors
that surround you on all four walls, you enjoy great sex together
by being in a different place and knowing that right on the other
side of the wall, another couple (or threesome, foursome or more
some) is doing the same. In fact you can even hear their sexy sounds
through the walls which multiplies your excitement.
# 4 - You both decide to be a little adventurous.
You secure your clothes in a locker and wrap up in a large, soft
towel, which is provided by our playroom attendant. You go to the
giant Jacuzzi for a bit where you can enjoy being naked but since
you’re shy your first visit you feel more comfortable being
in the water where your hands can roam, playing with each other
(and maybe others, too) under water and not in obvious plain view
of everyone, (even though others might be engaged in all sorts of
easily viewable activities in and around the Jacuzzi and you).
# 5 - You both know that you want to see more,
but you’re not sure about how much you want to participate.
So, wrapped in your little security blanket towels you venture
into the main back rooms "Luvnasium" party complex covering
several entire rooms and naked bodies . . . lots of them. You don’t
get on the mattress, but instead you decide to observe from the window looking in, close enough to easily view all
the exciting activities in the room down next to you, yet far enough
away to accommodate your comfort zone. You feel like you’re
part of the activities though not needing to participate in them.
It’s like you’re sitting in an adult theater watching
the most erotic orgy you’ve ever seen, except this time it
isn’t a movie... The action is real and live!
# 6 - You see the couple you were slow dancing
beside on the dance floor. There is room next to them so you spread
your beach towels out on the mattress beside them and lay down.
You begin kissing and playing with your mate, when after a little
while the pretty girl of the couple beside you gently touches your
arm to extend an invitation to touch them back. You respond to her
touch not really knowing yet how much touching or caressing will
take place, but knowing full well that either couple can say no
at any time and set any limits they desire. Maybe the ladies only
touch each other while the men each pleasure their own wives. Maybe
the men are massaging both the ladies’ entire bodies or maybe
the ladies are stroking the other man while having sex with her
husband. Who knows what might happen this special magical night,
it’s all up to you and those involved with you. Maybe she
might enjoy giving you oral while her husband services her from
behind, you’ll be sure to see plenty of that going on here.
And maybe you’ll engage in full partner sharing with a complete
exchange of partners ... It’s entirely up to you and those
involved, this is your night, you set your own limits.

Keep reading our set of rules and
suggestions to familiarize yourself with to be sure you have the
best time possible. With this approach you are certain to have the
greatest night of your life.
At the end of the night, maybe you'll exchange
phone numbers with this other couple or maybe you'll just enjoy
seeing them at "Your" club once in a while... Remember,
it's all up to you.
Over 300 couples flood into Miami Velvet
on a Saturday Night. About which 20% are first time visitors so
why not be one of them?
A Special Note to Single Guys:
We appreciate single gentlemen and realize that
you play an important role in the swinging lifestyle so select single
males are permitted. "Select" means that you must be clean,
polite, well dressed and well mannered. If you're not all of these
things then Miami Velvet is not for you. CLICK HERE TO READ IMPORTANT INFORMATION ON SINGLE GENTS AND THE LIFESTYLE.
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